Maybe there is a way to change how we are perceived and treated by identifying ourselves as verbally handicapped or memory-challenged before we speak. The absence of a white cane, walker or wheelchair, dark glasses, or a service dog does not guarantee our acceptance, physical safety, or freedom from exploitation.
How about those “communication cards” that typically contain brief information about an individual’s disability, their specific needs, or how others can assist them. Such tools help reduce misperceptions and misunderstandings to facilitate interactions in public or social settings. A common example is the deaf and hard of hearing community. My card might read:
“My name is Ken. Thank you for reading this. I suffer from an age-related problem with my short-term memory and difficulty in recalling the names of persons and things. If I appear to be lost, confused, or in danger of accidentally hurting myself, I normally have no trouble answering Yes–No questions.
If you remain concerned, kindly call this number: ___-___-____. God bless you and thank you for your assistance.”